Couples Counselling Program
Making a choice for a conscious marriage, or relationship is not for the faint-hearted. It requires reclaiming the lost, repressed parts of ourselves, which we were told were dangerous to have and which we unconsciously hate ourselves for having. And it means learning more effective coping mechanisms.
Change is the catalyst for healing and in changing to give our partners what they need, we heal our own wounds. Our own behaviour was born in response to our particular deprivations; it is our adaption to loss. In giving our partners what is hardest for us to give, we have to bring our hidden selves out into the light, owning the traits we've repressed (rather than projecting them onto our partners). When we change our behaviour in response to our mates, we heal our partners and ourselves.